Image is important! People judge you first by how you look & dress. So take the time out and look your best! Even if its just meeting with your friends! It will give your self confidence a boost!
Here's what I did!
1. Picked clothes that fit well:
So important! I have seen women who just either wear clothes that are too tight or too loose. Either ways, you lose out! Imgine having to stare at the massive chest of someone whose literally bursting out of her shirt! And to top it all, your male colleagues actually tell you to tell her to cover it up! How embarrasing for me?? And if it is embarrassing for mr to hear that, dont you thing, the lady in question should cover it up! Yes, we love our bodies, but let's accept that we need to camouflage whats out of proportion, isnt it. Not flaunt it so much, that it becomes a cause of embarrasment to all around. And trust me, no one is going to take you too seriously, if you are spilling out of your shirt! So dress appropriate.
2. Pick clothes that suit you and suit the situation:
Of course! I would love to tell some women I meet at work that what you are wearing is a wee bit too casual for work. Or the other way round sometimes! And then I know people who in their effort to be radically different end up looking like clowns or christmas trees! To such people I'd say...get a life! The insecurities are showing!
3. Brands work! Dont be cheap!
Yes, I love my brands! I know it sounds very haughty tauty of me! If you are earning reasonably well, there is just no excuse for picking stuff off fashion street & linking road! If you want to save money, invest well elsewhere! But dont compromise on fake stuff! It is so not cool. Dress within your means, but not at the cost of quality.
4. Wear Make up!!!
Its a boon, trust me! Learn the art! Its fun to experiment and see your best features come alive!
I've notices how much more confident I feel with just a simple eye liner & mascara. I know, most women are intimidated by make-up. I was too. Until I gave it a shot and learned to do myself up. And then it feels wonderful! Trust me on this one! Try it for yourself!
5. Accessorize well!
Be it an appropriate bag or a neckpiece. It does make a difference!
So make this change for yourself! However, you look. Whatever be your size. Its so important to put the best of ourselves out for the world. Every little bit of self confidence helps!
Cheers!!!
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